Lifestyle, Perfume

How to choose a perfume Valentines gift for a loved one

Choosing the right perfume for a loved one at Valentines Day can feel like a daunting task. There are so many perfumes on the market; it’s hard to know where to start. Is a bestseller the best bet, or should you try a niche perfume? I’ve written some steps below that I hope will help you in your journey. Good luck!

  1. Look on the dressing table, or wherever they keep their fragrances, and see what they already wear. Ask in a speciality perfume shop or look the fragrance up online (e.g. at to find what ingredients are in there; this will help you discover what types of ingredients they love in their perfumes, and which “fragrance family” the scent belongs to. If they like the notes in their current perfume, the chances are that they will like them when they are blended in a slightly different way. Go for something including some of the notes, but different!
  2. Think about their style and personality. Perfumes have a soul and a style themselves; it is possible to match this to your valentine! If your loved one is male, bold and usually classically-dressed, for example, they may appreciate fragrances with lots of natural essential oils (think lavender, geranium, patchouli and sandalwood oils), with a woody and amber base. On the other hand, a younger female that follows the latest fashions may prefer a fruitier, lighter and fresher scent. While these are generalisations of course, your loved one’s style can help to guide you. If they appreciate quality and something unique that will set them apart from the crowd, then why not get them a fragrance from a niche perfume brand?
  3. Be brave! Perfume is so subjective that there is no right answer when it comes to choosing a fragrance. You know your loved one best, so if you have followed steps 1 and 2, then the chances are you will be introducing them to a fragrance that they can appreciate. Sometimes that’s what it takes to launch someone out of their fragrance comfort zone!

Ruth x


A gift of perfume to a loved one is one of the most precious and intimate gifts we can give. Choosing a unique perfume that they love requires a dash of thoughtfulness, a squeeze of love and a hint of bravery.

6 thoughts on “How to choose a perfume Valentines gift for a loved one

  1. Em says:

    This is a really interesting, articulate and informative blog – thanks Ruth! Looking forward to seeing more posts on here so I can learn about how to navigate through the world of fragrance more with your help!

    1. Ruth Mastenbroek says:

      Thanks for your comments, I’m glad you found it useful!

  2. Good useful post for me.
    I added your website into my bookmarks!
    P.S.: Excited for future updates.

    Best regards,

    1. Nic Mastenbroek says:

      Great Robert, thanks for letting us know! We’ll be posting more helpful blogs in the near future.

      Best wishes,
      Nic (Ruth’s son)

  3. Nic Mastenbroek says:

    I”m glad it helped, did you choose a perfume in the end?

  4. Thank you so much for this article. Actually, this article is so attractive for men or women. Perfume is most important fragrance for body perfume every person. I think this article is better than another article.

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